They are inspired and influenced by:
- what you say
- how you say it
- why you say it
- and their sense of where you’re coming from – your Purpose.
As your Purpose grounds and energises you it will also ground and energise others.
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I am a balance, a provision, a gesture, a trust
Existing with you and for you
Not without you
My alchemy, captured in maxim
Is confirmation of the stuff of mutual benefit
A marriage of skills
A proof: the whole being appreciably greater than the sum of its parts
I am agile in diversity
Vigilant in adversity
Convergent in purpose
Versatile and dynamic
I am a living thing however you cannot hold me still
Able to self-sustain and self-renew
Delicate, supple, irrepressible, robust
I am manifest through your achievements
Cyclical, evidentiary, transmuting
I am dance
And your welcome,
when you find me.
“You must give birth
to your images
they are the future within you
wanting to be born.
Fear not the strangeness that you feel
The future has to enter us
long before it happens”.
– Rainer Marie Rilke
Perhaps everything terrible is in its deepest being
something helpless that wants help from us.
Rainer Maria Rilke
Who will lead us when we do not lead ourselves?
Who will know us when we do not know ourselves?
Who will love us when we do not love ourselves?
Who will trust us when we do not trust ourselves?
When we name what gets in our way of leading.
We find the courage to speak what is true.
When we name what gets in our way of knowing.
We find the wisdom to shape our world.
When we name what gets in our way of loving.
We find the heart open to find the heart.
When we name what gets in our way of trusting.
We find the will to move beyond fear.
We find our place of leading
And others know this
And find it
As primarily social beings, when we spend time together; our brains wire together and our bodies step, hearts beat and lungs breathe in similar rhythms; mirror neurons in our brains engage. As author Daniel Goleman so aptly states: ‘when we wire together we fire together’.
As social and neurological beings, when we feel: included, accepted, appreciated, respected, regarded, thanked, welcomed, remembered, noticed, asked or celebrated our brains generate ‘happy’ chemicals and we feel good. Actually we feel great.
In addition; we think well, we’re more likely to be creative and innovative, to be productive and effective, and to be optimistic and happy. We’re also more likely to engage well with one another, collaborate, solve problems together, trust each other, manage conflict in a productive way and have really good conversations.
If you agree that this is generally true for you and you acknowledge how you feel when you experience any of the acts of social inclusion just mentioned; you’d possibly also agree that the following question is an important one to ask.
Would paying more attention, spending more time and/or placing more value on acts of social of inclusion be of benefit to your family, your team, your community or your organisation?
For most of the answer is most probably, yes.
Understanding the impact of this benefit and being able to engage in actions that create it is one of the most important functions that any of us interested or invested in social wellbeing and leadership can undertake.
The intent to work more often with acts of social inclusion, emanates from a generative motivation.
Investing in relationships in such a way fosters shared understanding, mutual respect and connectedness. When this occurs we know where the other is coming from and we recognise their intention.